I know why you have landed on this article. You have caught your boyfriend or husband looking at other women online, right?
Maybe he stares and zooms in on other female images, and likes it. Watching their videos, or browsing their Instagram or Facebook profile. If so, it’s normal and reasonable to feel angered, irritated, confused, overthinking, or betrayed. You might be confused why he does this. Am I not enough for him, or am I missing something in the relationship that he is looking for? Let me tell you that this is a possible sign that he is looking for something missing in your relationship and trying to compensate for something missing in your relationship.
Some important points you should know
If he is looking at a woman’s photos and images casually on social media, don’t worry, he is probably just liking and admiring their beauty and looks without getting emotionally involved.
He might have an addiction problem, emotional infidelity, or be cheating on you if he watches a lot of porn or only one woman online.
You should ask him why he does this and tell him how it hurts you. Don’t hesitate to ask anything if you have doubts.
12 Reasons Your Husband Looks at Women Online
There are many possible reasons why your husband looks at other females online on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter, but none of them are an excuse for hurting you or breaking your trust. Some of the common reasons we have listed below
1. It’s likely a physical attraction, nothing more than that
It happens to you too, right? If you have ever seen a photo of a hot guy and thought he was amazing, you just admired him. That could be the same thing your husband is doing. He has no connection with the girl he is looking at. For him, a cute girl is just a cute girl, nothing more.
2. He might want to know about how his ex or old friends look these days
Did you see him scrolling through Instagram photos of an ex girlfriend or old friends? He might be curious about how his ex girlfriend is looking these days, and what his friends are doing now. Social media is a great way to check up on friends from school days or college friends, so he might be just checking in.
One thing to remember here is that, it’s ok if your husband occasionally sees any woman, but it is not safe if your husband keeps “checking in” on someone multiple times a week.
3. He may not think that there is anything wrong with what he is doing
It is possible that your husband thinks this is a normal thing to do. It is possible that he thinks this is normal thing to do, and he is confident that looking at women online wouldn’t affect his marriage or relationship with you.
4. He could be struggling with a porn addiction online
5. May be he is emotionally cheating on you.
6. He might keep his options open as a backup in case things don’t work out
7. Maybe he is bored with this relationship and looking for something to do or see.
8. He might be curious about what other women look like or have to offer on social media.
9. He might be looking for ideas or inspiration for himself or for you, like how to dress up, how to express love, and how to communicate to make the bond stronger in a relationship.
10. Maybe he is dissatisfied with his current relationship and looking for something new or exciting.
11. Maybe he feels neglected or ignored by you due to any reason and seeks attention elsewhere.
12. Maybe he is comparing you to other women and evaluating your strengths and weaknesses.
The best thing to do is to ask him directly why he stares at other women. Everything should be crystal clear. Ask him directly why he is doing that, and check out his answer and expression.
But you should also know the common reasons. If he avoids the question or makes you feel bad for asking, that’s a bad sign.
He has no excuse for looking at other women like that. You should not ignore it.
And remember, it doesn’t mean your marriage is over. But it’s a problem that needs to be fixed through mutual discussion.
What You Can Do About Your Husband Looking at Other Women Online
If you are seeing your husband looking at other women online, see and like their photos and videos. First of all don’t panic or overthink. It may not mean that he is unhappy and unsatisfied with you or your relationship. Men like to see attractive women, Which is why hot models and girls get thousands of likes and followers on social media, even if they truly love their partner.
However, if it bothers you, talk to him directly about it. Tell him you feel bad, and ask him why he does it. And see his reaction; if he respects you, he will listen to you and stop it. And if he doesn’t, you may need to think about your next step, set boundaries, or get professional help.
How can I tell if my husband likes another woman?
Top 10 signs that indicate your husband likes another woman
1. He doesn’t show much interest in the bedroom.
2. He deletes browsing history from his phone immediately.
3. He is suddenly too conscious of his dressing style and his appearance.
4. Suddenly, he has become more active on social media and is alert when notifications come to his phone.
5. He started hiding his bank account statement
6. He gets irritated and defensive easily.
7. He is not telling you his exact location every time you ask.
8. He started spending more time at work
9. He avoids sharing anything with you.
10. He has become silent and does not talk to you properly as he normally does, you can see clear changes in his behaviour with you.
what should you do when your husband looks at another woman online?
According to us (our professional relationship advice experts), we are encouraging you to talk to your boyfriend or husband immediately. Because mutual discussion is an important part of a healthy relationship, If you don’t feel you can approach your boyfriend or husband regarding your concerns, or if he is not answering you properly, there might be serious issues that need to be evaluated as early as possible. You can get the help of a professional counselor at this time.
FAQ
1. How can you check if your husband is looking at women online?
– Check his browsing history if you have access to his phone and computer
– Observe him while he is using social media
– pay attention when he is smiling while texting
2. How do I know if my husband isn’t attracted to me anymore?
You may see signs like
– don’t talk to you properly
– having sex less often
– spend more time on the phone
– romance become less
– more arguments and clashes over little things
3. Why does my husband stay if he doesn’t love me?
Some reasons are;
– because of family pressure
– lot of people think they can’t live alone
– they are comfortable with their partner
4. How do you know if your husband loves you?
– he will hold your hand while walking
– He values spending a lot of time with you.
– he shows by his behavior that you are his priority
– he shows that he loves you through physical affection like hugs and kisses.
– he understands you in every situation and takes your side
5. What is a relationship without love called?
Relationships without love are called “Platonic Relationships”
